Few More Rivers to Cross. . .

I don't engage in political talk often. It’s like playing Monopoly- the conversation will NEVER end and no one ever really wins. . However, I can't help but engage myself in the banter surrounding this historical election race that we have currently found ourselves in. . . . ahhh. .there's that word again: race.

Race
1 : the act of running
2 a: a family, tribe, people, or nation belonging to the same stock
b: a class or kind of people unified by shared interests, habits, or characteristics
from Merriam-Webster online.

Ironically, we are witness to a race (act of running for office) in which two candidates are attempting to use race (a class or kind of people unified by shared interests) to divide and conquer. What should have been an inspiring walk into history has become a race about race. . .

Case in point:

"I got up and the question was asked, 'Why do you think Barack Obama is in the place he is today" as the party's delegate front-runner? I said in large measure, because he is black. I said, Let me also say in 1984 -- and if I have said it once, I have said it 20, 60, 100 times -- in 1984, if my name was Gerard Ferraro instead of Geraldine Ferraro, I would never have been the nominee for vice president."
In her first interview with Daily Breeze, published late last week, Ferraro said, "If Obama was a white man, he would not be in this position. And if he was a woman, he would not be in this position. He happens to be very lucky to be who he is. And the country is caught up in the concept."

That's called propaganda folks, and team Clinton is full of it. I mean honestly, what does any of this have to do with the state of economy? War in Iraq? Healthcare? Exactly. .

I am having a hard time believing that Senator Clinton thought a simple brush off on her behalf was going to cut it, especially after her people called for the head of Obama's former foriegn policy advisor for a benign off-the-record comment (which may have had some truth to it. . ). The audacity of Ms. Farraro is simply beyond me; I can't understand how she, not only emphatically made her point and defended it, but resigned only such that she might "speak for myself and you (Clinton) continue to speak for yourself about what is at stake in this campaign. . The Obama campaign is attacking me to hurt you (Clinton). I won't let that happen." Not a lick of remorse in that statement. I can only imagine that Shirley Chisholm is rolling around in her grave. . .
Obama's retort, on the other hand, was simply classic: “Let me put it this way. . if you were to get a handbook on what's the path to the Presidency, I don't think that the handbook would start by saying, be an African-American named Barack Obama. I don't think that would be generally be considered an advantage. . . .Anybody who is aware of our history understands that there are some barriers to knock down, the same way there are barriers if a woman is running. . ."
Address. Explain. Move on. . .
(Quote courtesy of Today Show: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21134540/vp/23589533#23589533)

Unfortunately, we've got six weeks until the next major primary in Pennsylvania. Great. Six weeks of party-dividing, border-line offensive, strategically defensive political jargon. But at least we have Spitzer to thank for diverting the media for the meantime. . and for allowing for a blind, African-American man to take the Governor's seat for the first time in New York.

. . there's another river we just crossed :)

N

We're Forgetting About AIDS

As I waited for the bus today, another bus passed across the street with a giant Kenneth Cole Ad which read" We're ForGetiing AIDS. And all I could do was shake my head and think how true it is. I am recently single again and so have been discussing these issues more with my girlfriends and I have been utterly surprised and baffled by their attitudes about sex.

Case in point: One of my girlfriends is extremely intelligent, went to a good university, law school, works for one of the top law firms. She is on top of everything- wouldn't dream of paying a bill late, has substantial savings, just all around has her stuff together. She recently found out that someone that she has a casual sexual relationship with has had 75 sexual partners in his life!!! They don't use protection. This is the same woman who wouldn't drink after me if all we had was one canteen and we'd been walking across the Sahara desert for ten days.

But, this is not an isolated case. Out of all the single friends I've discussed this with, not one of them practices safe sex even most of the time. I understand that sometimes things happen and mistakes are made, but none of them even really seems concerned about it or tries to make it a regular practice. And they all have justifications. "He's a doctor- I know he doesn't have anything." (Honey, do you really think you are the ONLY person he's having unprotected sex with?) or "I'm on birth control." (Please, a baby is not the worst thing that could happen to you!) Or "He doesn't like to use them." (If he doesn't like to use them with you then he doesn't like to use them with anybody.) Or the ever popular "He didn't have a condom." (Hmmm, make him go to Duane Reade and get some or better yet, carry your own.") Most of my friends wouldn't dream of carrying their own condoms because they'll "look like a slut." In general, I tend to carry one even if I have absolutely no plans of using it. I think it's just a good habit. And if you insist on seeming innocent and pure, wait until it's clear that he doesn't have one to present your own. But really, if it gets that far and he wasn't planning on using anything, I would have to rethink this person as a potential partner.

As the World Votes...

So by now, a good number of us have voted. We thought long and hard about who we wanted to win the chair. But did you really? Did you think about it that hard? Or did you just go with the Black man, the White woman, the religous right, or the most PC choice? Are you able to answer key and crucial questions about the person you voted for? Hmmmmm.

Some one sent the YouTube video to me. I checked it out and thought it was interesting. The kid in this video actually did me proud. He knows key information about the candidate he chose to support and is able to back up the poster he so proudly displays. Can you do the same? Or is the election not that important to you?

For some, it still isn't. People (young and old) STILL don't vote. I don't understand why. Because your 1 vote doesn't count? Because you don't have time? It's too far? You never looked to see actually where you are supposed to vote?

I moved and didn't submit my new mailing address. Therefore, I had to go over a river and through some hoods to get to my voting block. And you can bet your Iraqian inked finger I got there. But, hey, that's just me and my one vote.



Be Seen at the Top!

~B.Lee

Kanye's Flahsing Lights Video

Have you seen this already? I believe this is a partial. Is it just me... because I don't get it. But then again, it is Kanye. I am interested to see where the rest of it goes.




~B